I wish my hubby would center his whole world around me.
He would ask me what i want and he would consult with me, treat me as his partner and give me due credit, and not other women in his life.
We would make our life choices. Not him imposing his decisions about his relatives on me.
My kids are fed up of his this behaviour.
He doesn't think of us ever.
He is so selfish and portrays himself as so selfless
Hello Hun Dear,
It sounds like you are in a very difficult relationship with your husband. It must be hard to feel like your opinion doesn’t matter.
We can’t rely on any one person to fill all of our needs, not even our spouse. Do you have any hobbies? If you can, find something to do independent of your husband. Perhaps you could join a book club, hiking group or take up swimming.
It is important for our own self-worth to have a life of our own.
Since your children feel the same way that you do perhaps you could do activities with them as well. Maybe if your husband sees you as an independent woman he will respect you more and take your needs into account.
We can’t base our happiness on what another person does or doesn’t do. You need to find a way to be happy and fulfilled as a woman.
I hope I have been helpful,
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